Please is there a treatment or cure for asexuality? All the information off Google I've found talks about demisexuality but I haven't found anything about how to get rid of it.
I'm not sure if I'm Demisexual but it's a frightening fit to how I feel and have lived my life.
I called my family doctor's office but he didn't know about demisexuals. To be fair, I didn't know either until a few days ago. Should I get a referral to a psychiatrist? Is there a cure for my affliction, some kind of treatment or medication?
I understand its a bump but please. If anyone Has the answer don't lurk. Write it down, PM or whatever. It's 5:00 am and I need to sleep but will be checking this, and other forums on the web that I've asked this same question, in the morning,
Different people like different things. Some like chocolate some vanilla. I know its an infantile comparison. Is someone who prefers vanilla broken? Is someone who likes chocolate wrong?
If you fall in the asexual spectrum or in the grey you are no more broken than someone who prefers chocolate or vanilla, you are simply you.
The question is not about trying to change who you are to match someone elses ideal. Discover yourself and find someone who works with you.
Ive been like this for a long time without a label. Searching for a cure implies there is something that needs to be fixed. Different people have different libidos different triggers different fetishes. None of these are wrong they are just what works for them, rather find what is right and comfortable for you.
If this doesnt help i am sorry. Its all the advice i can give. I love how i am, i accept it, its broken down barriers for me and put me in a place where my relationships are more fulfilling and more meaningful because i understand me.
Words can cut deep, leaving wounds that never heal, the right words can change someones life.
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There's nothing wrong with you dear. Don't you let yourself or others tell you there is. Everyone experiences sexual attraction in a different way. I like to think most demisexuals like myself have a low libido or low interest but it doesn't make us broken. This isn't a mental illness hon its a real and valid sexual orientation. God made you perfectly. Not one part of you is broken beyond repair or broken at all. Its ok to be different. Lord knows i have always felt different than sexual people. I didn't feel like anyone understood me. When i learned there was a word for what i am i was thrilled because i FINALLY knew who i was and with support from my friends in lgbtqa i was able to love and accept myself. Sounds like you got some acceptance to do my friend. Being demi ace is not a bad thing.
I feel a lot the way Why does, but maybe for different reasons. If I could choose to not be demisexual, I absolutely would. For me, it's an incredibly frustrating combination of being extremely demisexual, highly *HIGHLY* introverted, and with a very high sex drive.
I would LOVE to have satisfying casual sex. But sex with anyone that I haven't formed a fairly deep bond with... well, I might as well be a side of beef for all the enjoyment I get from it. Being incredibly introverted it is extremely hard for me to meet and connect with new people. Making all of this a billion times worse, I have a pretty intense sex drive.
Over the years I've built a pattern of unhealthy relationships with people very unsuitable for me out of need to create some kind of connection so that I could have an even moderately satisfying sex life. I basically taught myself to learn to love people who I never should have, just because I needed some kind of intimacy and sex. And yes, I've spent many years single and celibate, which doesn't make me happy either.
So yes, if I could be cured of being demisexual I would be. It has not improved my life in any way that I can see and has maybe caused me a lot of heartache and frustration.
I also feel like I would like to be "cured" sometimes, I am working on, in therapy, my ability ( or lack thereof) to trust people and my relationship with/confidence about my body. I think my demisexuality, or maybe more my reaction to it and struggle to understand it, has caused an immense amount of sufferring and depression in my life. That said, every other intense personal struggle I have faced has eventually made me stronger, more intelligent, and more empowered and unique than I ever would have been without the struggle. Don't try not to be demisexual. Try to deal with it in a better way. It won't be easy but it will be worth it.
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